5 Minute Friday-Identity

I’m taking the plunge again with The Gypsy Mama for 5 minute Friday. This week’s word is Identity. Much harder to write about than I anticipated, but I have challenged myself to engage in more writing opportunities; to write more and think less. If that means the only chance that I have to write all week is for 5 minute Friday, then I’m gonna take it and run!

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I get really flustered when I have to fill out a personal bio. Something about the question “tell us about yourself” sends me running for the hills. Perhaps it’s because somewhere along the way, I stopped answering that question; not for everyone else, but for me. I forgot who I was; who I wanted to be. And then it hit me: I didn’t forget. I never knew to begin with.

I’ve spent the last few years journeying toward really knowing who I am. I’m not there yet, but everyday, I’m one step closer. I’ve always struggled with making sure everyone else was taken care. That everyone else was happy. Along the way, in all the tiny moments of extending myself, I didn’t realize that I was actually giving me away. The beautiful thing about self discovery is it opens up doors to new possibilities while at the same time opening windows into the soul.

The Oxygen Mask Project

So I made my social media declarations about this earlier today and it is with sheer determination that I was not going to let my day end without posting my oxygen mask list publicly. I’ve learned a lot in the 8 weeks since our 4th little person joined the fam…at the top of the list is that if I don’t take care of me first, the rest of the ship doesn’t float so well! Next on the list: taking care of yourself first is not a selfish act, it’s actually the first step to living a more selfless life. Here’s to the year of the oxygen mask turning into a lifestyle and not a challenge. I’d love to have you join me on the journey be it through your own list, checking in on my progress, positive energy or prayer! So here’s my list. I see it as a starting point; as accountability. NOT as a check list of ‘must do’ items. Rather a list of ‘love to do’ as I learn to love myself more.

30min/day walking
Zumba 1x week-minimum
Date time w/ J 2x/mo
Me time (not running errands) 2x/mo
Laugh more-especially at myself, especially when tense
Cry more
Talk about feelings instead of eating through them
Write more especially about feelings
Knit something for Baby R
Make a family quilt
Learn to crochet
Buy a pair of jeans that make me feel awesome no matter what they cost

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